Allah Loves Gentleness in All Things
Among the most admirable traits in the eyes of Allah are kindness and gentleness. Those who embody these qualities are promised a unique reward by their Creator.
Aisha reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) once said:
“O Aisha, Allah is gentle and He loves gentleness. For the gentle, He grants a reward that surpasses what is given for harshness.” (Muslim)
Kindness and gentleness are inherently virtuous qualities; those who possess them are blessed with a share of true goodness.
“He who is deprived of kindness is deprived of goodness.” (Muslim)
“Whoever receives his share of kindness has received his share of goodness, and whoever is deprived of kindness is deprived of goodness.” (At-Tirmidhi)
Allah values mildness in every aspect of life, urging us to maintain these attributes even when confronted with abuse or cruelty. On one occasion, although the Prophet faced insults and curses from his adversaries, he chose not to respond in kind. Instead, he exhibited patience and encouraged his companions to follow his example of kindness.
Aisha recalled a situation when some visitors hurled a curse toward the Prophet upon their entry. In her reaction, she expressed a strong rebuke, but the Prophet reminded her:
“O Aisha, Allah is kind and He loves kindness in all matters.” (Al-Bukhari)
In another instance, Allah sent Moses and Aaron to confront Pharaoh. They were instructed to speak in a calm and measured tone so that Pharaoh might listen and perhaps even fear Allah. Allah advised:
Speak to him mildly that perhaps he may remember or fear Allah.
Similarly, when inviting the nonbelievers of Mecca to embrace Islam—even as they schemed against him—Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was commanded to approach them with gentleness. Allah reminded him:
Truly, they are devising a plan, and I am devising a plan. So grant the unbelievers a respite and treat them kindly for a while.
This call for patience led the Prophet to endure mistreatment for over twenty years. Although there came a time when persecution necessitated self-defense, even then he was directed to accept repentance and embrace any offer of peace.
Allah further explained the path to mercy:
If they repent, establish prayer, and give charity, let them proceed on their way, for Allah is Forgiving and Merciful. And if any one among the idolaters seeks your protection, extend it so that he might hear Allah’s words, then escort him safely, for they are people lacking understanding.
Thus, the door to mercy and gentleness remains open at all times—even those who stray far from the path are offered a chance to reform.
Kindness and gentleness are not reserved solely for human interactions. They should extend to animals and all of creation. Aisha once recounted an incident when she was riding a misbehaving camel and began to strike it. The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) cautioned her:
“Be gentle, for gentleness beautifies whatever it touches, and its absence leaves things unadorned.” (Musnad Ahmad)
Even seemingly trivial acts of kindness hold great significance, helping to safeguard us from the torments of Hell and securing a place in Paradise. The Prophet emphasized that those who are approachable, courteous, and mild are spared the restrictions of Hellfire:
“May I not tell you of those for whom Hellfire is forbidden? They are those who are approachable, courteous, and gentle.” (Sunan At-Tirmidhi)
It is essential for us to nurture kindness and gentleness in our own conduct and to teach these values to our children—whether among our fellow believers, with those who do not share our faith, or in our treatment of animals. Let us resist the lure of cruelty and harshness, and may Allah refine our manners and protect us from all forms of severity.
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